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i cheated on my gf nd i knw tht was a stupid move but i want her back.HELP!!!!

by showing her u are making changes, by telling her u know what u did hurt her. but sometimes it doesn’t work out because when u betray someone they loose the love they once felt for u. of they are so humiliated and embarrassed that they wouldn’t take u back no matter what.

So, my boyfriend broke up with me on Sunday. He said he didnlt know what it was, he just didn’t feel like it was going anywhere. He told me that I shouldn’t look forward to anything happening between us in the future, but he still wanted to remain friends.

I told him that I knew he was going to break up with me weeks ago, and that I wasn’t upset. Just disappointed that we couldn’t work out. In all actauallity I was heart broken. I cried myself to sleep Sunday night, and all day Monday. Today, Tuesday, I wasn’t a little upset this morning, but now I’m okay. 

I read that there are ways to get an ex back. I would just like to know if it reall is possible, and what are some real ways that people have actually used. I really love him, and I want to at least try to be with him again. Just being friend will be extremely hard for me.
He’s 21, and I’m 17. But he thought I was 20 when he first met me, because I’m very mature for my age.

Move on. He’s your ex for a reason.. You guys didn’t work out and you shouldn’t have to change yourself just to keep him.. You will find someone who is right for you, you just gotta get through the mr wrongs..

I was with this guy for a couple months, but we always fought. It was probably because we are both very stubborn. But the last time we fought I couldn’t take it, so I told him to leave. He did. I’ve realized, now, that the decision I have made was the worst one. I miss him dearly. I’ve explained to him how I feel, but he said that it’s my job to come back. I’m trying, but he’s not letting me do that very well. We are both artistic, but in different ways. He draws, and I’m more technological. I make videos. So I’ve decided to try and make one for him, but I don’t know what song(s) to put in as the background. He’s in to like alternative and heavy metal and music like that. Does anyone know any song that would help me tell him how stupid I feel and how badly I want him back? I would greatly appreciate your help.

"show me the meaning of feeling lonely
so many words for the broken heart
its hard to see in a crimson love
so hard to breathe
walk with me and maybe…….."

i think by this beautiful song of backstreet boys, u’ll be able to convince ur ex

or
"keep holding on" by Avril Lavigne

thats also a lovely song for ur situation

my best whishes
don’t worry
i’m sure u’ll get ur love back
all the very best

were both seniors in college and a week ago my girlfriend of almost 4 years broke it off with me because she said that I make her feel bad by using pity when she has to get work done for college and dosn’t have time to see me on the weekends. a couple days after the break up she sent me a message telling me that she misses talking to me and would like to meet for drinks, we met for drinks and it went well and at the end of the night she said she had a wonderful time but would just like to be friends for now and needed time to work on her senior comp. I told her that it would be hard for me to just be friends with her but she could call me anytime to talk. its been 3 days since and I haven’t tried to call her and no contact between us except for a short message asking if she got to college OK. now i’m sitting here lonely as hell and wishing I had her back. How long should I give her until contact her, and when I do how should i go about getting her back.

Your not going to like my answer but you ask. Seniors in collage. Life is changing for the Both of you. Your about to begin a new life when you graduate. People change, feelings change. it sounds like what she is saying is Goodbye. It may be time to take your love and move on. Im sure she cares for you. but may no longer have the love in return you have for her. Who knows maybe she met someone else. I know that’s hard to hear.But The ball is in your court. don’t call her, let her call you if she wants too. you cannot be just friends after four years. that will never work. till both of you have moved on. she will know you still love her like crazy when ever you look at her.And I’m sure she does not want to hurt you any more than she already has. It will be time for you to begin again when you have some time to heal your Heart. But take it from a woman’s point of view, we have all been here at some point.

okay, heres what happened, i was out with my friend and i got a text from my ex’s mate, he said " *the name* just wants to be single atm, sorry " ..so i was really confused, i heard more about it and it turns out that yeah, he just didnt want a girlfriend atm, well..so he says, the thing is, he’s really close to the boy that texted me, and the boy that texted me is my good friend too, the boy that texted me told me that if there was any other reason for him dumping me then my ex would have told him, and the only reason he gave me was that he wanted to be single, i sent my ex a long message saying how i still love him ect.ect. and he texted back saying "im really sorry and i still want to be friends" but the next day i seen him at the park, he kept well clear but kept staring at me ?..see the thing is, its the summer holidays over here, and he lives about half an hour away walking distance, 5 mins on the bus, i couldnt really go and see him because im not allowed up there, but he is allowed at my bit, he always made excuses, see i went up to his bit everyday for a week, and he came out very rarely, he came out 4 times out of the whole week, i got found out and grounded so there wasent anychance i was going back up again, he never phoned me, i always phoned him, and he never texted me, only replies, but when i was with him he was really nice and clingy, i loved that, but whenever i asked him to come to mines he always made excuses, and it made me feel shit. he says he still wants to be friends and we havent spoken since the split, we split about 3 days ago, i really loved him, and spend ages looking at photos of him, i cant go on without him, help me get him back?!

Don’t. Plain and simple. He said he wants to be single, he didn’t give a reason, so let him be. If you harass him or bug him then he really won’t want you back. He’s not worth it. Yes you say you love him and all but do you love someone who doesn’t love you back? Or love you they way you love them? I know it may hurt but there is someone out there for you, there for everyone. Even if your a nerd or a crazy person. Lol. Theres someone for everyone. If he doesn’t want a relationship then let him me. There’s gonna be some boy out there for you. Besides you sound like your between the ages of 14-17. You’ll be fine.