How To Get Your Ex Back

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I dated this girl for a year. The first day we met we basically were in love right away. The first couple months she was away at school and I was like an hour and a half away. We saw each other usually once a week because I would drive down every weekend. Second semester I actually moved to the city where she went to school and I started going to school there. She lived with me all second semester. She was crazy about me and said how she wanted to marry me and all this stuff. I felt the same way and we were just so in love. We spent every second together and we never fought. Besides when we drank sometimes. Sometimes I would get mean when I was too drunk and she did a few times also, but more me than her. We broke up a couple times because of drunken fights and every time I fought for her back because shes the kind of person who holds her ground. So about 2 months ago I was drunk and was just being a dick and she ended up breaking up with me. I gave her a week and then we went to lunch and I was saying how I was done drinking and tried to hard to get her back. By the end of lunch she was telling me she loved me and that we would start fresh. For the next couple days we talked but didn’t really hang out. She came over once and was skeptical whether it was right to get back together and stuff but I convinced her to just give me a chance. Then that weekend she went down to where we go to school and she didn’t call or text me once and I just gave her her space. When she got home I texted her and asked if everything was cool and she was just being short and rude so I called her to talk. I picked her up and she basically just said she was so done and didn’t want it anymore. When I talked to one of her friends a few days after that she said she thinks she just wants her space and wants to be free for a while. I didn’t drink for 2 months but she just didn’t give me a chance. I started drinking again a few weeks ago and when I talked to her last she was being mean and said shes pissed because I’m drinking again. I basically told her I would do it all over again and not drink again if I could get her back but was asking how shes going to be mad at me when she broke up with me 2 months ago and me fixing all my problems wasn’t good enough.

My question is, what do I do now? I want her back but I don’t know what to do next. She has some stuff at my apartment that she was supposed to get a while ago but hasn’t got around to it yet. She won’t go to lunch or hang out with me or anything because shes mad. How can I get her back?

Also, she is on prozak for depression and has been going to a therapist starting a week before we broke up

If you love her, then leave her alone. You being in her life won’t be good for her mental health. She’s depressed and doesn’t need you making it worse. Let her go.

Okays, well.. I’m 14. and he’s turning 15 soon. And yea, we’ve been dating for 3 months. And we just broke up because of an argument. He’s the sweetest guy ever, I know that I’m 14.. and I won’t marry him and all. But I want him back.
We broke up recently, and he told his friends to do it over the phone. -_- (Yeah, I know.. stupid move) He said it was because he didn’t want to see me cry.
Well, we broke up before and we got back together after.. and now, I’m trying to get him back.

After the break up, we still talk to each other.. through text and msn. But when he saw me in person, he kept looking at me.. but we didn’t talk. It was a bit awkward.
I honestly want to do something with him, just to get him back. Because he does make me happy, and yeah.. I just want him back.. :/

Uhm, im 14 as well, working on the same issue .
Think of what made you guys break up in the first place .
then think of how he fell for you the first time (;
It honestly depends on if he still has strong feelings for you and wants you back .
try asking some of his close friends how he feels, be discrete
then that should help you figure how to get him back .

So i messed up like REALLY bad with my girlfriend, and we broke up. But i love her more than anything else, and i don’t want to lose her. ive tried to call her and text her and stuff but she won’t respond. How will i get her back? any ideas? …. Maybe Romantic?

Go to her house and fucking drag the bitch out!
lol jk, flowers to the door?

My ex and I had been together off and on for 8 months. Things were good at first. A few months into us dating he had asked me to check his facebook. During this time I noticed a message from this girl saying "How could you do this to me? I can do so much better then you" I didn’t say anything. During one of our other splits I checked it again. He messaged this girl and she asked if he wanted to hang out. He said "yes, but thought you had a boyfriend" She says I have a **** friend right now" and he stopped talking to her. This is the split that I found out I was pregnant.
I told him I was pregnant and he was scared, yet happy. He was planning a future with us.
On June 10th he moved out and back with his mom. Did the same thing as always. Took his clothes and that was it. I got tired of sitting around waiting for him, so I went and hung out with one of my ex boyfriends. This I thought was a good idea because my other two kids missed him, and wanted him to hang around. He must have caught wind of this.
Next thing I know I am getting a phone call from someone saying that he is back with his ex. (which was the girl in the previous messages. So I wrote him a message and told him that I would never get back together with him. We were done, he was not stringing me along anymore. And he needed to come and get his things from my house. Days went by and I decided to check my facebook to see if he had wrote back. Instead of writing me back he deleted me off his facebook. So I called him and he said the reason why he deleted me was because I wrote him a two page message. Accusing him of being with this girl. Told me I was crazy, and stupid. Said it was not true and hung up on me. .He was very angry.
The next day a friend of mine had contacted me and told me that this girl pulled him aside at work and asked if he knew me. Then mentioned that she was kinda seeing my ex boyfriend, and he told her about the pregnancy, and she was ok with it. She just didn’t want any trouble. Apparently my ex told her that I was going to make it hard for her.
They both claim that I was not cheated on. But he didn’t even tell me he was moving on with her. He also denied her. Why would a guy denie this girl, if he is actually seeing her? I dont understand. It has been a month and no contact. He stil has not picked up his things. First he said that he would be back in a few days to get them. Then, He told me to sell them, or throw them out. What is going on? Now, I am hearing that he is now saying he doesn’t think the baby is his, And is geting a dna test. Why would he outright deny it, and then be seen in public with her?

The guy is a jerk! Have your baby and take his butt to court for child support and health care.He is too immature for you to waste your time wondering what he is up to.He denyed the girlfriend because thats what guys like him do.Even if you got him back the trust is broken.

help please

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