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My ex-boyfriend and I dated for 7 months. We were good friends but from past stupid things I have done, we don’t talk that much. Our plan was to break up for a while n get back together; but now we only talk on occasion. I still miss him a lot and I want to get him back, I just don’t know how I go about doing that.

Hi Shauna,

Do you have these symptoms?

-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry

-Loss of appetite

-Binge eating for comfort

-Calling your ex several times a day

-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)

-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see they called

-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call

-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you

-Feeling massively depressed

-Feeling urges to spy on them

-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said

-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them

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me and my ex split a couple of months ago because he found the distance between us hard. i still havnt got over him so last i told him that i still had feelings for him and he feels the same but he doesnt know if he wants to get back together again. how do i get him back?

Can I get my ex back is a question heard many times. You are not the only one wondering if it is possible to reignite an old relationship. Since there are likely many factors that contributed to the breakup it’s difficult to say with any certainty that repairing the relationship is possible. For more in depth and detailed help you might consider using this powerful system. Let’s cover some surface considerations.

The first question you may want to consider is how did things end. What was the straw that broke the camel’s back? Did you separate peaceably or did you separate with a huge fight? If it ended peaceably, then at least you can simply reconnect and move on to getting the relationship going again. If it ended in a huge fight, then it is likely you would simply breakup again if you were to get back together. Successful relationships don’t have huge ugly fights. Successful couples do disagree with each other and do talk about and resolve their disagreements, but they don’t have huge ugly fights about them. You may be able to get back together with your ex, but you two need to learn how to talk about problems, not fight about them, if you want the relationship to last.

If you are not sure what to do, then it might help to seek the advice of a friend. Talk to someone about how you want to get back together with your ex. Get their perspective on things. You’re not really getting their permission, rather you are just asking them what they think.

However, when looking to friends for help there is something you must understand. Friends can help you to think more clearly, to reflect on things, to understand what caused the breakup, etc. However, friends are likely not where you want to get the how-to advice. It’s better to get this information from an expert or from a book on the subject, such as this one.

One of the biggest dangers of seeking advice from a friend is that they may not be impartial. Your friend may really want you to get back with your ex, or they may really NOT want you to get back with your ex. This will, not maybe, influence the kind of advice they give you. An expert, like a counselor or a book, can be more impartial.

Furthermore, when seeking advice from a friend, watch out for unorthodox or risky solutions. For example, tactics to manipulate your ex in a devious way so they come back to you is probably not a good thing to do. In some cases this could be outright dishonest. Sift through the advice. Keep the good advice and throw out the bad.

Believe it or not, the reasons for breakups are very few. There hundreds of issues that some call the reasons why we breakup. However, you can count on your two hands the number of real reasons why people break up. For example, one common reason why people break up is criticism. When people try to solve problems, they often argue and blame the other. A relationship where the couple deals with problems by criticizing each other, assigning blame, and not taking responsibility for themselves, are relationships that are likely to fail.

“You always do that.” “You never….”

Do those phrases sound familiar? Statements like these said and heard over and over again have been proven to lead to breakups. Some relationship researchers can even predict to 90% accuracy whether a couple will breakup simply by listening to them discuss a problem in their relationship. A simple 15-minute discussion laden with each couple criticizing and blaming the other is an indication that the marriage will very likely at some point in the future end in divorce.

Basically, my girlfriend and I had a huge fight and she broke up with me, I think she broke up cos she was angry, but she still had feelings for me afterwards cos we still texted for a while and talked and so on, but she refused to get back with me when I asked. So a month later after chasing her she told me to get over myself, which didn’t feel so good. She pursued this guy and they are now dating. While they were dating I tried to break them up (foolishly), and she got really mad and told me to look at myself and ask why she didn’t like me anymore..
So I gave up talking to her and I hadn’t texted her or contacted her in weeks, and then suddenly she started joining all these groups on facebook saying stuff like ”remember how close we were? ye.. I miss that a lot ” which Im pretty sure were directed at me. Then I was told by a mutual friend that she didnt love her new boyfriend and that they barely had a relationship or anything, but she went with him for a week to the south of France :s. Basically I made a myspace page which until then only she had and I looked at her profile and on there she was listed as single and she had a picture with her boyfriend that had written under ‘Im not your babe’..
And she keeps joining all these fanpages referring to how she rly misses someone, which is for her bf cos shes with him :p
So ye, I want her back but I dnt know if she loves me or not, and why on facebook which she knows I have she pretends to be so in love with him on her statuses and stuff, but never writes anything on his wall, and on her myspace she says she doesnt like him cos she thinks i cant see. I basically think shes trying to make me jealous but I don’t get why she’s being so weird, we haven’t talked in weeks..
what do I do to get her back? is that a possibility?
Hope you understood ^^ its kind of messed up

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Say you went out with a Scorpio guy for like, 2 months. Even though it’s a short relationship, you two seem to like each other a whole lot. Things started to get rocky when his unemployment was brewing financial trouble in his life and he gets insecure over the fact that he couldn’t drive you around in his car (his car breaks down) anymore. So he decides to dump you, to your surprise.

How do you win a Scorpio ex back when the break up isn’t about abuse, cheating or incompatibility, but basically "bad timing"?

coming from a scorpio, i would get involved in a relationship if i feel stable and worthy enough to make my girl happy. hearing your situation, i think you should stick by him however give him a bit of space but stick by him as a true and honest friend. make him feel happy and as if nothing between you two has changed because of his bad economic situation and you two splitting up. good luck and only time will tell.

Say you went out with a guy for like, 2 months. Even though it’s a short relationship, you two seem to like each other a whole lot. Things started to get rocky when his unemployment was brewing financial trouble in his life and he gets insecure over the fact that he couldn’t drive you around in his car (his car breaks down) anymore. So he decides to dump you, to your surprise.

How do you win an ex back when the break up isn’t about abuse, cheating or incompatibility, but basically "bad timing"?

He must feel real bad that he can’t afford to date. Keep in touch and let him know that you still want to be friends. Seeing you said that you "seem to like each other a whole lot" you can still do things together that are free, like going to the park or for a walk. Maybe he’s depressed and needs a friend to talk to. His life will straighten out and he’ll be back to his old self again!