More often than not, girls tend to initiate the first move in breaking up with their boyfriends. Unfaithfulness is deemed the primary reason for such breakups. Faithfulness is considered as binding by most women. It encompasses love, trust and loyalty. If partners fail to preserve this virtue they will most likely separate. Men on the other hand, resort to a number of coping mechanisms. Others give themselves space after the disheartening experience. Some reflect on the breakup experience. They will never engage in another relationship until they are ready. Many make themselves available for another person. While, surprisingly, others are caught up in desperate attempts to get their ex-girlfriends back. Undeniably, coping mechanisms vary. What is amazing however, are those guys who are looking for ways to rekindle the once stained relationship. As a guy, what courageous move do you have on how to get your ex-girlfriend back?
A friend of mine made a confession regarding the bold moves he did to win her girl back. My presentation of his attempts doesn’t mean his actions are appropriate and must therefore be followed. I seek to shed light on the pros and cons that these actions have on how to get your ex-girlfriend back.
Begging the girlfriend to stay
Begging that a girlfriend stays is a common strategy that most guys employ to win their girlfriends back. Begging may include blackmailing the girl to stay, lest the guy will take his own life. It can also mean submitting oneself to the girls’ full dominion and authority. My friend recounts that there have been reckless attempts which he had to kneel before his girlfriend vowing to do whatever his girlfriend pleases as long as she stays.
Persuasion
Persuasion includes convincing the girl that a breakup is just but one unavoidable circumstance that is common on any relationship. Persuasion may also involve giving gifts, flowers and even money which are referred to as peace offerings.
Though the above actions may result to favorable responses at times, they cannot assure longevity and stability of the relationship. There will always be a contest of power on decision-making between the two parties. There is just but one vital way on how to get your ex-girlfriend back, and that is HUMILITY. You must admit the fault done and seek means to resolve the conflict. You must forgive and be forgiven. Communication is crucial in this attempt. A guy has to clear out issues with his girlfriend and must be open to her point of views. A guy must find ways to prevent if not lessen conflicts. Lastly, must cooperate to sustain the relationship if the girlfriend decides to stay.