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So how DO you get your ex girlfriend back?

Well the first thing that you dont do is something stupid. You dont go out on the town with your mates. Theyll lend a sympathetic ear and show you a good time, but youll all end up half cut and theyll try to help by introducing you to a lovely lady in the bar and you know whatll happen next, dont you?

Thats right guilt, just to add to all your other problems. Let alone the hassle of trying to get out of bed, get dressed and get out of the house without waking her! That, my friend, is an art that takes a long time in the making. Look at you, youre a wreck. Youve no idea what to do next. Not a clue. You cant concentrate on anything, you dont even care about anything and to be perfectly honest, you are boring everyone to tears. Sure, everyone feels sorry for you, but you have to do something constructive.

Making constant phone calls and sending hundreds of text messages is NOT constructive. Nor are hip expanding boxes of chocolates. Tasty, no doubt, but in these circumstances, less than useless. What youve got to do, and I know that this will be difficult, is to harness what little you have left of your brain power if you ever want to find out how to get your ex girlfriend back. Not only getting her back, but getting her begging to come back. And she will. But only if you play your cards right.

Although you may well feel the need to call her ten times per day, this is only going to make her see you as needy. It’s going to turn her off, even if she feels sorry enough for you to carry on taking those calls.

Make sure that you cut off all communication until you know what plan of action you are going to use. Think things through, are you acting out of pride or real, true desire to be back with your ex girlfriend? Knowing what you truly want is the first step you should be taking. Take the time out to really sit down and think about what you want. If pride is driving you, then you really shouldn’t be treating her as your possession.

Heres what you DO have to do. You have to stop running around like a headless chook chasing its own tail. {Yes, I know its a mixed metaphor, but whos writing this article?}
Remember, Im the one whos trying to show you how to get your ex girlfriend back.

You have to make a cup of coffee, not a beer, a cup of coffee, get some paper and a pen, sit quietly, no TV, and work out a few things.

You have, firstly, to work out why she left in the first place. Make a list of things that you did that she was always mentioning. They might not seem important things to you, but women are funny creatures. Always remember, Women and cats will do as they please. Men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea.

Did she always comment about your smoking in the house? Maybe she didnt nag about it, but it was obviously on her mind. OK, stop smoking in the house, better still, give up smoking altogether. This will impress her no end.

The most heinous crime that any man can commit, in the eyes of a woman, is to leave the toilet seat up. Truly and without a doubt, this has been the cause of countless relationship break-ups.

Practice lowering the toilet seat. Its quite easy once you get the hang of it. Grab the top of the toilet seat with your right hand and gently lower it. Dont drop it or it will make a very loud crash and frighten the cat. There, that was not too difficult, was it? Now, about going to bed with your boots on

Your list may be short or it may be long, but what you have to do is change these bad habits BEFORE you try to win her back.

Its no use at all ringing her up and saying Ill change. You have to change first, THEN ring her up, casually, and have a chat, mention in passing that youve stopped smoking etc. How youre going to bring the toilet seat into a casual conversation is your problem, not mine.

Dont be in too much of a hurry to make contact. I know its hard, but two can play the hard-to-get card. If you wait for a few weeks and master the toilet seat thing, when you do call her, the call will be greeted, not with annoyance, but with relief on her part. After all, she may have given you the elbow, but shell still be wondering how youre going.

Now youre starting to get the upper hand. But you still need help. Big time help.

You do deserve to be a winner, dont you?

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How to Win My Ex Back – Tips For Getting Back Together After Breaking Up

How to win my ex back and get back together with him/her?

Perhaps you have already broken up with your ex but you still have feelings for your ex. You still harbour the hope of getting back with him/her eventually. But is it really possible? Is it still possible to win your ex back after a break up?

Well, in my opinion, I believe that most relationships can be saved if you take the right action. Of course, no one in this world can guarantee you that you will definitely be successful in winning your ex back. However, there are actions that you can take which will increase your odds of success.

Some actions you can take include:

1)     Getting yourself back into a positive emotional state.

It is normal to feel upset over a break up. You may feel like it is the end of the world. You feel like crying. You feel lost. These are normal. And I believe it is healthy to allow yourself to feel that way.

But there is always a point in time when you have to break out of these negative states. By all means, feel depressed for three days. But after that, do get yourself positive again.

The fact is you can’t win your ex back if you stay in a negative state of mind. No one in the right state of mind will want to be back together with a depressed person.

You are more likely to win your ex back if you emit positive vibes.

2) Avoid all kind of mistakes that will spoil your chances to win back your ex

It is not uncommon for men and women to make all kind of mistakes when trying to win their ex back. This is also normal, especially when you are feeling low.

We are all prone to making mistakes when we feel lost and depressed. Therefore, it is best that you avoid contacting your ex while you are in a negative emotional state.

Also, you should have a basic awareness of what those mistakes so that you can avoid them. For example, one of the most common mistakes is to call your ex over and over again.

By knowing what those mistakes are, you will have a much better chance to avoid those mistakes.

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me and my gf split up after a year and despite my attempts she is not wanting to try to save the relationship.

i have 2 questions

is my best bet to leave her alone, agree with the break up and hope she misses me

and if so if i do the above reverse psychology method should i have no contact with her at all or still make random contacts with her as friends to prove we work

regards

Hi

Winning back your ex girlfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.

Here are helpful steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:

Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together

You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!

You’re only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.

But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.

So don’t ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.

Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go

Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.

Be Flexible

Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.

These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really serious about getting your ex girlfriend back soon as possible I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back.
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